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October 31
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TIPS TO IMPROVE MEMORY
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In this day and age, there is far more money to be made with a strong mind than a strong body.
But, having a strong mind doesn't happen by accident. You have to train the brain just like you'd train a muscle. And, any and all shortcuts that make the brain more effective could just affect your bottom line.
Here are a few tricks to improve your memory immediately:
1. Drink in Moderation -- While too much drinking certainly hurts the memory, there's evidence that light to moderate alcohol consumption can actually improve memory. Some studies have found that moderate drinkers do better on certain tests of memory than nondrinkers.
2. Get Moving -- Exercise not only exercises the body, it exercises the brain as well. By pushing more oxygen and nutrients from the bloodstream into the brain, the brain's ability to work is improved.
3. 8 Seconds -- 8 seconds is the amount of time you need to completely focus your attention upon something to effectively get it from your short-term memory into your long-term memory.
4. The Name Game -- When you meet a new person, it's important to pay attention to the name and the face. As soon as you learn the name, repeat it back to the person by saying, "Nice to meet you, so-and-so." It actually works. Researchers have found that people have a 30 percent better chance of remembering a name when they repeat it as soon as they learn it.
5. Use Your Environment -- Tying a string around your finger to remember something has become a bit of a punch line, but it makes sense. By changing something in your environment, you create a reminder for yourself. Some people switch their watch or their ring from one hand to the other to remember things. | October 30
Has one of your co-workers made your life a living hell? Does your boss or employee make your blood boil or your stomach churn? Most people have experienced a negative, overbearing or downright hurtful co-worker, employee or boss at some point. Learning to work with all types, it seems, is a necessary requirement for success.
In their book, "Working with You is Killing Me -- Freeing Yourself from Emotional Traps at Work," Katherine Crowley and Kathi Elster offer advice on how to recognize a co-worker problem and provide tools for dealing with them professionally and effectively.
The first step, say Crowley and Elster, is acknowledging that there is a problem. Once you do, you can learn to manage your own reactions. When you are caught in an emotionally distressing situation at work, Crowley and Elster call it being "hooked." A person who is hooked will have a negative reaction to a co-worker either physically, mentally or emotionally.
Crowley and Elster offer a process called "unhooking" to help you manage and deal with harmful colleagues:
Unhook physically. The first step is to calm down physically. Remove yourself from a situation by leaving the office for a few minutes. Blow off steam with a walk or relax by taking deep breaths. Think about something that makes you happy. The important thing is that you release any negative energy so you can look at the situation more clearly.
Unhook mentally. Crowley and Elster call this the "internal version of talking yourself down off the ledge." This involves looking at the situation rationally and finding a fresh perspective. Ask yourself these five questions:
1. What's happening here?
2. What are the facts of the situation?
3. What's their part?
4. What's my part?
5. What are my options?
Once you've sorted out the facts, you'll have a clearer view that will enable you to take the appropriate action.
The bottom line, every workplace has its demons. But taking control of your own response to these personalities will leave you empowered and better able to handle most any interpersonal situation. October 29
Some Creative And Cheap Halloween Costume Ideas
-Bunch of grapes
Blow up a number of purple balloons and affix them to a dress or unitard with safety pins and you're good to go.
-Bag of jelly beans
Start with a clear trash bag from the grocery store, and cut holes for your arms and legs. Next, print out or draw a jelly bean package label onto a piece of paper, and mount it to the inside of the trash bag, facing out. Finally, fill the bag with an assortment of bright colored balloons, and loosely tie a ribbon into a bow around your neck at the top of your bag to "seal" the package.
-Geisha
Grab a silk robe and slippers from your closet (or a local Asian market), and toss your hair up with chopsticks from the kitchen drawer. Cinch your waist with a sash, then mix some cold cream and cornstarch together (with a little water) for a pale face. Powder with a little flour, add red lipstick, and finish with a fan.
-Miss Piggy
Just go for glamour in anything, from a dreaded old bridesmaid dress to your favorite evening gown that is collecting dust, find a fake pig nose and ears and add a blond wig.
-Where's Waldo
Pull on your favorite pair of "true blue" jeans and slip on some brown shoes. Next, find a red-and-white striped turtleneck, black glasses and a hat.
-iPod ad
Using a neon green, blue or pink poster board, affix the Apple iPod logo to the top corner and attach arm straps with black elastic or rope. Dress in all-black head-to-toe
-'Count on Me'
Dress in all black and use double-stick tape to secure cut-out numbers all over your body. Your friends will love that they can "count on you" all night long!
-Dry cleaning
Simply slip on the plastic garment bag from your most recent round of returned dry cleaning over your outfit.
-Got milk?
Using a solid white T-shirt, write "got milk?" with a sharpie, or try printing out an iron-on T-shirt transfer using your computer. Finish with a "milk moustache."
-Facebook
All you'll need is an oversize old book and elastic. Punch a hole in the top right-hand corner of the middle pages, slip the elastic through and tie a knot on each end to secure. Slip your head into the book so that the elastic works like a headband.
-Pinup girl
Attach safety pins to a T-shirt in the shape of an arrow pointing up.
-Smarty pants
Attach Smarties candies to your waistline or belt, add nerd glasses, a pocket protector and graduation cap if you have one to be transformed into a "smarty pants."
-Self-absorbed
Dress in all black and use double-stick tape to secure sponges to your body.
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ECONOMIC MESS MAKING PEOPLE FAT, DRUNK, AND SLUTTY
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New York City psychotherapist and author Tom Kersting is seeing first hand how the economic turmoil is affecting people. His clients are dealing with the stress in three ways. They're getting fat, drunk and slutty.
1. Food -- Employees are coming home from work rattled by stress and, instead of exercising and eating a salad, are climbing into bed with a container of ice cream. Days and weeks of comfort food are packing on the pounds.
2. Booze -- Fears of job loss and financial insecurity are a powerful trigger causing people to drink. It's so powerful, in fact, that some drinkers are becoming problem drinkers.
3. Sex -- Some people seek stress relief by engaging in risky sexual conduct -- even if they're in a committed relationship. More and more married people are visiting strip clubs and massage parlors and using escort services either for the very first time or far more often than usual. | October 28
Here are some things guys lie about.
Flossing. Just ask your local dentist how many times they've heard this little "white lie". A guy could have his teeth falling out from gum disease and he says he still flosses 2-3 times a week. "Yea....right!"
Age. Lying about your age has always been way up the list for what women lie about. But, a lot of men lie about their age also.
Height. The majority of short guys usually have serious mental problems. These guys have probably been picked on or bullied their entire life. Inadequacy, self-esteem issues and "Napoleon" complex afflicts this group of men.
Income. This category includes all types of money or income lies. The most common income lie is how much money you make. But, a lot guys also lie about how much they spend on certain toys and vices (cars, porn, gambling, etc.)
Intelligence. Most of the items that we all lie about are typically vanity items or control/power issues. Men are no exception. Lying about your "smarts" includes lying about SAT and ACT scores, G.P.A, non-existent college degrees, etc.
Cosmetic/Beauty. The cosmetic/beauty items that men lie about includes: cosmetic surgery (lypo, nose surgery, etc.), coloring hair/beard, waxing, pedicures, manicures, teeth whitening, sun tanning, etc.
Sexual Activity/Encounters. Men lying about their sexual experience has always been high up in list. Number of partners divide by 2 then subtract 3, this will be his exact number of sexual partners.
October 24
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33% OF EMPLOYEES FAKE ILLNESS TO SKIP WORK
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According to a new survey from CareerBuilder.com, 33% of workers have played hooky from the office at least once this year.
On the flip side, 31% of bosses have checked up on an employee who called in sick -- with 18% actually having fired a worker for missing work without a good excuse.
More Survey Results:
- 30% missed work because they just needed to relax and recharge.
- 22% skipped work to catch up on sleep.
- 14% called in sick to run personal errands.
- 11% stayed home to catch up on housework.
- 11% pretended to be sick in order to spend time with family and friends.
- 9% of respondents admitted to playing hooky because they wanted to miss a meeting, buy some time to work on a project that was overdue, or avoid getting yelled at by a boss or coworker.
- And the kicker ... 34% said they called in sick because they just didn't feel like going to work that day.
Bosses Stalking ...
Of the 31 percent of employers who checked up on an employee who called in sick:
- 71% said they required the employee to show them a doctor's note.
- 56% called the employee at home.
- 18% had another worker call the employee.
- 17% drove by the employee's house or apartment.
| October 23
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10 REASONS YOU NEED YOUR SLEEP
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You may have to add it to your to-do list, but scheduling a good night's sleep could be one of the smartest health priorities you set. It's not just daytime drowsiness you risk when shortchanging yourself on your seven to eight hours. Possible health consequences of getting too little or poor sleep can involve the cardiovascular, endocrine, immune, and nervous systems.
In addition to those not getting enough sleep by choice, between 50 and 70 million Americans suffer from a chronic sleep disorder -- for instance insomnia or sleep apnea -- that affects daily functioning and erodes health.
Here are ten reasons research shows why you need your sleep:
1. Less may mean more. For people who sleep under seven hours a night, the fewer zzzz's they get, the more obese they tend to be, according to a 2006 Institute of Medicine (IOM) report.
2. You're more apt to make bad food choices. A study published this week in the Journal of Clinical Sleep Medicine found that people with obstructive sleep apnea or other severely disordered breathing while asleep ate a diet higher in cholesterol, protein, total fat, and total saturated fat. Women were especially affected.
3. Diabetes can become more likely, along with impaired glucose tolerance. A 2005 study published in the Archives of Internal Medicine found that people getting five or fewer hours of sleep each night were 2.5 times more likely to be diabetic.
4. Your heart is put at risk. A 2003 study found that heart attacks were 45% more likely in women who slept for five or fewer hours per night than in those who got more.
5. Blood pressure may increase. Obstructive sleep apnea, for example, has been associated with chronically elevated daytime blood pressure, and the more severe the disorder, the more significant the hypertension, suggests the 2006 IOM report.
6. Auto accidents rise. As stated in a 2007 report in the New England Journal of Medicine, nearly 20% of serious car crash injuries involve a sleepy driver. And that's independent of alcohol use.
7. Your balance is off. Older folks who have trouble getting to sleep, who wake up at night, or are drowsy during the day could be 2 to 4.5 times more likely to sustain a fall.
8. You may be more prone to depression. Adults who chronically operate on little sleep report more mental distress, depression, and alcohol use.
9. Kids may suffer more behavior problems. Research from an April issue of the Archives of Pediatric and Adolescent Medicine found that children who are plagued by insomnia, short duration of sleeping, or disordered breathing with obesity, for example, are more likely to have behavioral issues like attention deficit hyperactivity disorder.
10. You could die. Those who get five hours or less per night have approximately 15% greater risk of dying--regardless of the cause--according to three large population-based studies.
| October 22
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THE BEST DOG FOR YOUR SIGN
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It seems like cute and cuddly dogs are everywhere these days -- as playthings of celebrities like Paris Hilton, starring in their own reality shows or movies, or popping up in commercials. But real pet lovers know that dogs are more than accessories. They can truly be our best friends.
But all breeds are not the same and choosing the dog that's best for you can make all the difference when it comes to the relationship you'll have with your pup. MSN Astrology takes all the guesswork out of choosing the right dog with this guide to how your astrological sign can tell you which dog will be your ultimate companion:
Aries: The American Staffordshire Terrier (Amstaff for short) is a confident dog that makes a loyal and devoted companion for Aries. Amstaffs are very trusting and friendly and, if you assert yourself like a true Aries, they'll be obedient companions.
Taurus: Your ideal companion is the German Shepherd -- intelligent, loyal, obedient, and easy to train. Some German Shepherds can be aloof and serious, like many Tauruses, but they are known for being great watchdogs, which helps put your mind at ease.
Gemini: Super intelligent and lively, Border Collies learn fast and are eager to please, which makes them easily adaptable to your world. Border Collies need a lot of mental and physical stimulation, like you do, which is why they're a great companion for busy Gemini.
Cancer: The Labrador Retriever is your ideal dog, not only for their sweet-natured, loving, ways but also because they are wonderful family pets. Labs are extremely friendly and mild-mannered, with a laid-back attitude. Because they love a ton of activities and have loads of affection to shower on their family, they're a great companion for family-centric Crab.
Leo: The grand, loyal, and honorable Bullmastiff is your type of dog. This huge dog is sure to turn heads wherever you go, giving you the attention you crave. But they're also cheerful, confident, attentive pets -- all characteristics that make any Leo dog owner swell with pride.
Virgo: The noble Weimaraner is perfect for Virgo. They're strong-minded and independent, and have almost boundless energy, so they really benefit from Virgos' energy. Once these dogs know they can depend on you, you can depend on them to reach their full potential.
Libra: Affectionate and gentle, the Whippet is a charming dog with a peaceful demeanor. They like to run and play, but they're also happy enjoying the comforts of home; this makes them more comfortable with your indecisiveness than other breeds. They love attention and will appreciate your creativity when it comes to finding activities to enjoy together.
Scorpio: As a strong and powerful Scorpio, you probably don't see yourself with a small dog like a Chihuahua, but you may be surprised to find they're a good fit for Scorpios. They are curious and very loyal, demonstrating quite a jealous streak if another pet or person is getting more attention than they are. Sound familiar?
Sagittarius: You need a dog who's as happy at home as they are on a road trip with you, and that's a Golden Retriever. The breed is popular for many reasons, like their social personalities and real passion for life. If you're up for doing it, so are they! Just make sure to get them a companion if you're gone a lot, as these pups do not like to be left alone.
Capricorn: Pugs are tenacious and devoted but also have a cheerful way about them, much like the typical Capricorn. These dogs don't need a lot of grooming or maintenance and are fine without a big yard to frolic in. Although Pugs can be willful at times, they will respond well to training.
Aquarius: You'll want to consider the gracious Rhodesian Ridgeback. They're intelligent, which you can appreciate, and also very independent and willing to follow the road less traveled with you. Just keep in mind that they have very intense sight and sound triggers, so they will wander off if something stirs their curiosity.
Pisces: Faithful, affectionate, and maybe a tad lazy, the Saint Bernard is a huge dog with a huge heart -- your perfect pooch! Saint Bernards are typically very calm, patient and loyal, like Pisces. These dogs need companionship and aren't good for people with hectic lives, but compassionate Pisces is usually willing to accommodate the Saint Bernard's needs. | October 17
The Top 10 Things People Would Never Do When sober But Are Willing To Do While Drunk
Have you ever noticed that when you are drunk, every idea that creeps into your cloudy, convoluted brain is the best idea you have ever had? With that in mind, here are the top 10 things people are willing to do while drunk:
10. Drink more. It seems that the drunker we get, the lower our ability to recognize our "cut off" point. This seems to happen most frequently while playing Beer Pong or while someone else's wallet is open with the intention of buying shots.
9. Sing lyrics to complicated songs. Why do we think that we can sputter out the words to Sir Mix-A-Lot's "Baby Got Back" after we've tossed back five Red Bull and vodkas when we can't even do it after having five plain Red Bulls? Yeah...
8. Get in fights. This applies to both verbal and physical altercations. We always seem to think that we are the toughest mofo to ever work it when actually we are slurring our speech trying to insult our opponent.
7. Say ridiculously inappropriate things. This is pretty broad spectrum but it happens everytime because we always wake up the next day and go "What did I say again?".
6. Show overly exaggerated expressions of affection. Of course, everyone within arms reach wants to know not only that you love them, but exactly how much you love them.
5. Smoke. Smokers become chain smokers. We light one cigarette off of the end of the previous one while drunk. Non-smokers all of a sudden find it not only socially acceptable, but cool to pick up a nicotine habit.
4. Dance. When not drunk, there are people who are willing to dance and people who are not. When we are drunk, everyone is Michael Flatley: Lord of the Dance.
3. Make out with strangers. The beer goggles set in four beers ago. You are pondering why Stella Artois has been being brewed in the same tradition since 1366. You get nudged by the stool next to you. They appear to resemble Angelina Jolie/George Clooney. The making out ensues. Twenty minutes later, one of you does the obligatory "I just need to go to the bathroom." Goodbye forever...
2. Eat unbelievably gross foods. Foods you would never eat, foods that are unacceptable for consumption, foods in revolting combinations.
And the number one thing that everyone is willing to do when they are drunk....
1. DRUNK DIAL!!! It is an unspoken fact that our ex-lovers secretly are dying for us to call them at 4:00am and ramble incoherently into their voice mail. Everyone knows it. Seriously though, this is never a good idea. Regardless of your state of inebriation, never ever drunk dial an ex. It always results in booty calls that shouldn't happen or arguements over the fact that they still have your My Little Ponies in their basement. And friends don't let friends drink and dial. K? October 16
How to Tell Someone at Work that They Smell Bad
If someone you know seems to suffer from a "failure to bathe", you don't have to suffer in silence. There's no great way to address the issue, but there are good ones.
Steps 1. Get the best attitude - an empathic, informative attitude. 2. Find a quiet place to initiate the discussion. 3. Use neutral, impersonal language that refers to professionalism and the impact on the office. 4. Say something like, "I have noticed the smell of (the offensive odor), and I'm concerned that it is having an impact on your ability to interact with your co-workers and our customers." 5. Let them know you are pointing it out to be helpful. Use the Power Phrase, "I'm telling you because it's important for you to know." 6. Set up a follow-up discussion. 7. Let them know how they're doing.
Alternate Methods 1. Buy two very nice scented soap/shower gel/perfume/deodorant and bring them to work. 2. Show one to your offender. Explain how much you love it. 3. Let them keep the one you showed them. You can have the other. 4. If this doesn't work, ask them how they liked their product. If they look sweaty or nervous, suggest a new way of how to use it. Repeat again the next time you see them.
Tips • Tell the offender, not anyone else. • Be as low key as you can, but don't hide the truth in hints. • If they become reactive, be empathic about it.
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